Twilio trunk incoming calls not working

I am a vitalpbx newb. Evaling it vs freepbx and 3cx. I want to use Twilio for trunks. Twilio works for me in freepbx and 3CX no problems. I can’t get it working in VitalPBX. Outgoing works fine in VitalPBX. But incoming does not. Twilio logs just show comm error with VitalPBX. Vital PBX pretty much shows nothing.  So it looks like it never even gets to VitalPBX. I saw another post about setting up separate trunks for each ip twilio uses, but that seems unreasonable given Twilio works on other Asterisk based pbxs without doing that. I also refered to the vitalpbx Twilio setup blog post. It is a little outdated as fields have changed since then. Someone has to be using Twilio with VitalPBX and got this working? Help

ps I have tried and tried, I don’t go out and ask until I have tried everything I can. So I double checked networking, I had firewall off, intrusion detection off, I tried both SIP and PJSIP.  I have run out of ideas.